Born in Valencia, Spain, this spirited and determined woman embraced the belief that her challenging upbringing and modest origins would not impede her pursuit of a successful life. Possessing a quick and receptive mind, she received her education in London, Dallas, Texas, and France, which opened her eyes to a wealth of possibilities. She later honed her expertise in International Etiquette and Protocol under the guidance of the esteemed Doyenne of Decorum Letitia Baldridge, former Social Secretary to the White House.
Understanding the significance of continuous education, networking, and cultivating relationships, she initially served as a personal assistant for several notable international organizations and individuals, including the London School of Hygiene & Tropical Medicine, Sir William Halcrow & Partners, Mercedes-Benz, and the Arab League in London. Following a series of relationships with some of the world's most affluent and influential men, she entered into a whirlwind marriage in 1990 with Sir Anthony Buck QC, the former Minister for the Royal Navy.
The subsequent high-profile divorce and media attention in 1993, after revelations of her association with Sir Peter Harding, then Chief of Defence, were followed by another marriage to Count Nicholas Sokolow. This union concluded after three years, during which she emerged as a steadfast advocate against injustices faced by women.
Her book, The Makings of a Modern Mistress (1996), was serialized in the UK's Daily Mail. A subsequent work, Powerplay, was translated into Spanish under the title Hazte Valer ("Value Yourself") and published in Spain in 2007.
Now resident in the UK, Countess Sokolow, née Bienvenida P Blanco, has both written and featured in a multitude of articles throughout the international media, covering such subjects as social etiquette and protocol, fashion and lifestyle, women’s rights and international business. She also continues to be in great demand for both chat shows and topical debates.
Her work/ideologies have featured in numerous international publications and media platforms, UK, Norway, Spain, Italy Ireland amongst others.
Countess Sokolow is now working in the strategic acquisition of residential properties, for domestic and overseas investors, and for diversified, alternative investment portfolios.
Specialising in The Middle Eastern, Russian, and Chinese sectors.